We have the summer ahead of us but if your little ones are starting school this September you may be feeling a little apprehensive? It is completely natural; it is a big life event not only for them but us too!
My daughter started school 2 years ago so I know exactly how you feel except you have to do it twice on the same day! There are some things that you can do to get them prepared for school to make it a smoother transition & they can be encourage with play & fun too!
1 Promote Independence
Although they will have the teacher & teaching assistants, becoming more independent is really important, being able to get their shoes & coat on themselves, wash their hands, go to the toilet independently & use a knife & fork makes things a lot easier for them if they don’t have to keep asking & waiting for help.
Spaghetti Play – A great activity to practice their knife & fork skills is messy play with cooked spaghetti, you can add food colouring to it to make it look a little more interesting & see if they can cut the spaghetti into small pieces then scoop into a bowl.
2. Encourage Listening
Throughout the day, your little one will need to listen to their teachers’ instructions, so if they don’t attend preschool then practice listening at home. Playing games which follow directions is a great way to encourage listening & also starting to practice listening with a certain action – teacher normally use clapping.
Flick Dance – Listen to a variety of genres of music (classical, hip hop, rock etc) switch the song & change the style of dancing.
3. What to expect
Talk about all the exciting things that will happen like making new friends and playing in the playground. There are some great books about starting school but you can also enjoy some role play & act out what school will be like.
Role Play some of the things they may do at school. Sitting on the carpet listening to the teacher read a story/call the register etc. Take it in turns to be the teacher & let them take charge, model being a good pupil listening, being kind etc.
Don’t forget to make it fun too, the first year of school is mainly play based.
Don’t worry about your child being able to read & write as they will teach this at school, most schools prefer them not to start before as they can pick up bad habits, instead work on their fine motor skills & build up the strength in their hands.
Lastly be positive, try not to show them you are feeling apprehensive and from one mama to another, the first term is the hardest & after that it will become part of your routine. Enjoy the time you have together this summer & you will treasure the school holidays & lazy mornings so much more.
You have got this Mama!
Written by Karen Sidell, Founder of It’s Playtime Tots Play Expert & Parenting Mentor.
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